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On Valentine’s day, He beat me to death and bought flowers for my funeral..

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I GOT FLOWERS TODAY…

I got flowers today.
It wasn’t my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.
I know he is sorry and didn’t mean the things he said,
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.
It wasn’t our anniversary or any other special day.
Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare. I couldn’t believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.
I know he must be sorry, because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today, and it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day.
Last night, he beat me up again. It was much worse than all the other times.
If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids?
What about money? I’m afraid of him and scared to leave.
But I know he must be sorry, because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.
Today was a very special day. It was valentines day .It was the day of my funeral.
Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death.
If only I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him,
I would not have gotten flowers today.

Poem source: unknown

Poem note: This poem was sent to me by one of the wordpress bloggers and regular reader of my Blog. She requested me to post it. This poem is pretty much her own story. She said she got this poem from the web but she doesn’t know the poet. Every Valentine’s day has become remembrance of nightmare to her.

On this day I wish her to find Love again!

I wish her Love which can erase all pains of her life!
I wish you all Love which brings you Happiness and Joy!

Love and Lots of it

Suresh

PS: As before like any of my earlier stories I am committed to maintain dignity of my source. Please do allow me.

24 Responses to 'On Valentine’s day, He beat me to death and bought flowers for my funeral..'

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  1. shaktipower said, on February 13th, 2007 at 2:24 pm

    Wonderful, wonderful flowers, Suresh!!!

    It is true, there is much pain in the world - but is it not people themselves who cause it?

    Our compassion should be there, but nothing work without the pure joy of our spirit!

    DEEPEST LOVE TO EVERYONE…

  2. Suresh Gundappa said, on February 13th, 2007 at 3:00 pm

    Thanks Shakti and I made corrections to your comment as suggested and I want to keep your comment as it is important to me and my readers.

    thanks

  3. shaktipower said, on February 13th, 2007 at 3:25 pm

    I love you, Suresh! ;) THANKS for everything.

  4. Nicola said, on February 13th, 2007 at 9:35 pm

    What is so shocking about this is that it is so true. I hope your friend finds the love , the healing and the peace they deserve.

  5. Prashanth M said, on February 14th, 2007 at 5:41 am

    Wonderful!! And coincidentally, I’ve a friend, who was my classmate. Came to know about her very recently and her story is not different, but luckily she is still alive & living with her in-laws. Hope she gets the courage to come out of her problems.

  6. Suresh Gundappa said, on February 14th, 2007 at 6:19 am

    Thanks Prashanth for sharing and may courage be with your friend.

  7. Michèle said, on February 14th, 2007 at 10:25 am

    Courage and love to all in these situations…

  8. Veena said, on February 14th, 2007 at 1:55 pm

    So depressing, Its hard to imagine about somebody who can be awefully bad! My GOD!!!

  9. Veena said, on February 14th, 2007 at 1:57 pm

    Suresh, You can link up that compassion related post here.. I just felt like reading that one soon after this ! somehow the whole concept of that poem is indigesting :-(

  10. Suresh Gundappa said, on February 14th, 2007 at 2:17 pm

    I agree with you Veena, you are spot on about Compassion article, actually I also thought about it. hope it is not Synchronicity again!

  11. Jorge said, on February 14th, 2007 at 2:58 pm

    Excellent composition, Suresh. I love photos of flowers, because you get to play with depth of field.

    Even changing the focus from one flower to another can render a completely different image!

    Excellent!

  12. Jorge said, on February 14th, 2007 at 2:59 pm

    A separate comment for the poem -

    What a haunting lyric.

    I hope your source managed to rectify her situation.
    :(

  13. naturalhigh said, on February 14th, 2007 at 6:06 pm

    Thank you for bringing this to my awareness. I hadn’t considered that flowers may be an apology for abuse. I am so glad that your reader got out alive, and I pray for her heart to heal.

  14. Priya said, on February 14th, 2007 at 10:22 pm

    Wow, wow, wow……fresh yellow and orange marigolds……..bright, cheerful and beautiful……that is what our lives are supposed to be like….that is what the love of our lives are supposed to make our lives like. I can understand the plight of the woman who wrote this poem.

    Suresh - whenever I visit your blog, I feel I am at the home of an old friend!

  15. Suresh Gundappa said, on February 15th, 2007 at 4:57 am

    Priya it is really wonderful to get your comments, unfortunately I cannot leave comments on your blog as comments are closed. For my other readers please do check Priya’s wonderful site : http://fromnaturetome.blogspot.com/

  16. Ashwathy Nair said, on February 15th, 2007 at 10:08 am

    Beautiful flowers…lovely image!

    Heart-wrenching poem….

  17. gmohanprakash said, on February 15th, 2007 at 11:17 am

    They are just magnificient…those bright marigolds…..

  18. shruti said, on February 15th, 2007 at 11:51 am

    God bless her..
    And wish, she got out of this nightmare very soon…
    take care…

  19. Diya said, on February 16th, 2007 at 10:03 am

    The poem is so heart wrenching in it’s simplicity…Maybe all the more so as it’s so very true…Wonderful writng….. Am going thru’ ur posts now and would like to tell u how very thought provoking yet simple they are…Thanx…..

  20. blessed1 said, on February 16th, 2007 at 6:06 pm

    I have read this poem before and its so sad how a superficial giving of flowers can overshadow the wrong doings in relationships. I hope your friend finds a true love that gives of the spirit, now just flowers.

  21. april fool said, on February 16th, 2007 at 6:40 pm

    The poem was so surreal…
    And the marigolds, they symbolize cruelty (accdg. to flowers and their meanings)…so befitting!

  22. eloi said, on February 21st, 2007 at 4:55 pm

    omg! i can relate to the poem very well. it makes me teary eyed.
    but i dont received any flower. hug and massage.
    said he loves me and im the one who push him to hit me. Would i leave?

  23. Belle said, on August 17th, 2007 at 11:37 pm

    \it was written and copyrighted by Paulette Kelly in 1992

  24. quickthinker said, on October 16th, 2007 at 1:20 am

    That’s a pretty sad story. getting flowers on your deathbed for love gone wrong is sickening.

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