Comments on: Taking sweet revenge on her father’s killer http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/ Come and have a cup of tea. Sit, Relax & I have something to tell you. Sat, 19 Jul 2008 15:53:37 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU By: rhea http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21751 rhea Thu, 10 Jul 2008 06:13:15 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21751 Hi, that was a neat write up. summarises almost all one needs to know on forgiveness. It is very difficult at times. but its so releiving at the end of it. The thought of avenging someone only tends to make us so bitter and unhealthy within. Forgiveness is so much for our won selves than for the other that we need to practice and make it part of us..leaving out the feeling of having done a self righteous deed though. Hi,
that was a neat write up. summarises almost all one needs to know on forgiveness. It is very difficult at times. but its so releiving at the end of it. The thought of avenging someone only tends to make us so bitter and unhealthy within. Forgiveness is so much for our won selves than for the other that we need to practice and make it part of us..leaving out the feeling of having done a self righteous deed though.

]]> By: Tomas http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21685 Tomas Wed, 21 May 2008 06:54:35 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21685 Thank you for the wonderful post. Yes, the quality and the capacity to forgive is one of the most beautiful flowers of the human soul. That's so indeed. However, while forgivingness expresses our attitude towards other and reveals our comprehension of ourselves (marks our ability to recognize ourselves in other), is it possible to forgive oneself? Forgiveness is something we receive as the most precious gift. Thus the picture becomes the interesting. While we all one in spiritual sense, and we all rejoice over the same flower of the forgiveness, we desperately need one other for we could take that wonder flower to our homes. Prayer/meditation helps us recognize the truth, but we need the fellowship in the concrete for to share the divine light. Thank you for the wonderful post. Yes, the quality and the capacity to forgive is one of the most beautiful flowers of the human soul. That’s so indeed. However, while forgivingness expresses our attitude towards other and reveals our comprehension of ourselves (marks our ability to recognize ourselves in other), is it possible to forgive oneself? Forgiveness is something we receive as the most precious gift.
Thus the picture becomes the interesting. While we all one in spiritual sense, and we all rejoice over the same flower of the forgiveness, we desperately need one other for we could take that wonder flower to our homes. Prayer/meditation helps us recognize the truth, but we need the fellowship in the concrete for to share the divine light.

]]> By: praneshachar http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21684 praneshachar Mon, 19 May 2008 13:17:26 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21684 indeed it is beautiful write up and great humanitarian act but what is all hype why so much of doubts created by various people whether she met her in jail or not so many contradicting statements came. what is wrong is she has gone she has gone thats all why all this should be kept secret? dont understand this dirty politics. all lines and words of your post carry so much they can not be measured in terms of any things simply I adore your post thats all indeed it is beautiful write up and great humanitarian act but what is all hype why so much of doubts created by various people whether she met her in jail or not so many contradicting statements came. what is wrong is she has gone she has gone thats all why all this should be kept secret? dont understand this dirty politics.
all lines and words of your post carry so much they can not be measured in terms of any things simply I adore your post thats all

]]> By: hypnotherapy home study course http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21679 hypnotherapy home study course Thu, 15 May 2008 02:32:06 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21679 This is very touching indeed. I'd like you to know that after reading this post I was able to medidate deeply for a good 15 mins just by using this story as the center of my thoughts. Fave line: "The quality and the capacity to forgive is one of the most beautiful flowers of the human soul." Truly, if at least 40% of the world's population is like her, world peace wouldn't be that unachievable. This is very touching indeed. I’d like you to know that after reading this post I was able to medidate deeply for a good 15 mins just by using this story as the center of my thoughts. Fave line: “The quality and the capacity to forgive is one of the most beautiful flowers of the human soul.” Truly, if at least 40% of the world’s population is like her, world peace wouldn’t be that unachievable.

]]> By: Ashish Baldua http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21678 Ashish Baldua Wed, 14 May 2008 18:24:48 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21678 Hi, Wanted to email you, but could not locate your email address on the blog. We have 2 cool widgets ( a slideshow widget and a content widget) which can help enhance site interaction and reader's experience. Please contact me at balduaashish2@gmail.com to know more. Thanks Ashish Baldua Hi,

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]]> By: witchy saint http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21671 witchy saint Sat, 10 May 2008 13:39:33 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21671 I am floored by this incident, I hope Every country produces at least couple of politicians like this. thank you for sharing , your site brings us so many facets of life! it;s a wonderful place of prayer for me. I am floored by this incident, I hope Every country produces at least couple of politicians like this.

thank you for sharing , your site brings us so many facets of life! it;s a wonderful place of prayer for me.

]]> By: Sanjay M http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21668 Sanjay M Fri, 09 May 2008 08:23:13 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21668 Beautiful article suresh. One line there says... <blockquote>It's not easy to forgive.</blockquote> I wonder why. One possible reason may well be that we may be associating forgiveness with obligation, duty, righteousness etc that you have highlighted to avoid. Once we manage to disassociate all those ideas, it would be a lot easier. Another may be the assumption that not me but the other is responsible for what has happened to me (...and therefore he is to be avenged...). Probably the more we <i>unlearn</i> this assumption the easier it becomes to forgive ;) This post sure was an inspiring encouragement! I would be curious to hear any other ideas from readers on how forgiving might become more natural and easier. Beautiful article suresh. One line there says…

It’s not easy to forgive.

I wonder why.

One possible reason may well be that we may be associating forgiveness with obligation, duty, righteousness etc that you have highlighted to avoid. Once we manage to disassociate all those ideas, it would be a lot easier.

Another may be the assumption that not me but the other is responsible for what has happened to me (…and therefore he is to be avenged…). Probably the more we unlearn this assumption the easier it becomes to forgive ;)

This post sure was an inspiring encouragement! I would be curious to hear any other ideas from readers on how forgiving might become more natural and easier.

]]> By: a common man ಸಂಜಯ » Blog Archive » a for apple, b for bat … r for revenge… http://sureshg.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/taking-sweet-revenge-on-her-fathers-killer/#comment-21667 a common man ಸಂಜಯ » Blog Archive » a for apple, b for bat … r for revenge… Fri, 09 May 2008 08:06:46 +0000 http://sureshg.wordpress.com/?p=566#comment-21667 [...] [But then of course there are exceptions which I believe is extremely important to not miss simply taking for granted - instead we should really cherish and highlight them for example the amazing case of Rajiv Gandhi’s daughter] [...] [...] [But then of course there are exceptions which I believe is extremely important to not miss simply taking for granted - instead we should really cherish and highlight them for example the amazing case of Rajiv Gandhi’s daughter] [...]

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