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Most Lovers are nothing but Intimate Enemies!

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Suresh Gundappa 2008

Have you noticed? you tend to move more towards love as you finish a fight. Over a period of time “cat fights” have become aphrodisiac in your relationship. That’s because your mind moves from one extreme to another. That is the nature of mind.

Now psychologists say if you don’t fight often then your marriage is dead! mmm…

To me, Whenever two lovers are intimate with one another they become silent. It is not that there is nothing to express. On the contrary, there is an overwhelming amount to be expressed. But words are never there; they cannot be. They come only when love has gone.

If two lovers are never silent, it is an indication that love has died. Now they are filling the gap with words. When love is alive, words are not there because the very existence of love is so overwhelming, so penetrating, that the barrier of language and words is crossed. And ordinarily, it is only crossed in love.

Meditation is the culmination of love: love not for a single person, but for the total existence.  Meditation is a living relationship with the total existence that surrounds you. If you can be in love with any situation, then you are in meditation.

Cheers

Suresh

Written by Suresh Gundappa

November 19, 2008 at 7:03 am

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    November 19, 2008 at 8:09 am

  2. It IS amazing how a good argument can lead to the most intimate connection. Most married folks would agree unless there are serious problems like abuse involved. The beauty of love is NOT having to say a word – the silence itself says it all.

    Fabulous post – powerful photograph! Thank you, dear Suresh!

    Gracie

    November 19, 2008 at 11:01 pm

  3. exellent post, Suresh, and I agree to 1000%

    axinia

    November 21, 2008 at 8:46 am

  4. love not for a single person, but for the total existence…

    I like this line – I feel a family is like a fractal unit of total existence. Its like a practice ground, and starting with love at home one can extend it beyond.

    Check out this wedding vow…

    Do you pledge to preserve and enrich your affection for each other, and to share it with all beings? To take the loving feelings you have for one another and your vision of each other’s potential and inner beauty as an example, and rather than spiraling inwards and becoming self absorbed, to radiate this love outwards to all beings? Do you pledge to expand your family to include all living beings?

    Sanjay M

    November 27, 2008 at 6:29 am

  5. December 4

    I believe in person to person. Every person is Christ for me, and since there is only one Jesus, that person is the one person in the world at that moment.
    – Mother Teresa of Calcutt

    Virtually everyone today believes that it is possible to love only two or three people. When Jesus talks about loving our neighbor as ourselves, or the Compassionate Buddha tells us to love the whole world as a mother loves her only child, we believe it is all metaphorical. Mother Teresa says no, it is literal. Two or three people are not enough for our capacity to love. We should be able to love everyone – not feel a vague sentiment for a faceless mass, but actually be in love with every individual.

    http://www.easwaran.org/thoughts

    Sanjay M

    December 4, 2008 at 6:01 am

  6. Great picture, any picture that provokes this amount of comment must be great.

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    December 4, 2008 at 10:22 am

  7. hmm this was a thought provoking to me. I am thinking if this was the answer for the questions thats been hanging on my mind of why we do always have disagreement is because we are intimate enemies?
    i love this one suresh, YOU are the best

    eloi

    January 2, 2009 at 10:00 pm


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