Have you noticed? you tend to move more towards love as you finish a fight. Over a period of time “cat fights” have become aphrodisiac in your relationship. That’s because your mind moves from one extreme to another. That is the nature of mind.
Now psychologists say if you don’t fight often then your marriage is dead! mmm…
To me, Whenever two lovers are intimate with one another they become silent. It is not that there is nothing to express. On the contrary, there is an overwhelming amount to be expressed. But words are never there; they cannot be. They come only when love has gone.
If two lovers are never silent, it is an indication that love has died. Now they are filling the gap with words. When love is alive, words are not there because the very existence of love is so overwhelming, so penetrating, that the barrier of language and words is crossed. And ordinarily, it is only crossed in love.
Meditation is the culmination of love: love not for a single person, but for the total existence. Meditation is a living relationship with the total existence that surrounds you. If you can be in love with any situation, then you are in meditation.
Cheers
Suresh
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It IS amazing how a good argument can lead to the most intimate connection. Most married folks would agree unless there are serious problems like abuse involved. The beauty of love is NOT having to say a word – the silence itself says it all.
Fabulous post – powerful photograph! Thank you, dear Suresh!
exellent post, Suresh, and I agree to 1000%
love not for a single person, but for the total existence…
I like this line – I feel a family is like a fractal unit of total existence. Its like a practice ground, and starting with love at home one can extend it beyond.
Check out this wedding vow…
http://www.easwaran.org/thoughts
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hmm this was a thought provoking to me. I am thinking if this was the answer for the questions thats been hanging on my mind of why we do always have disagreement is because we are intimate enemies?
i love this one suresh, YOU are the best
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