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I always wondered about attitude of society, religion towards Female Orgasm. The more I think about it more I am convinced that this has been a Master conspiracy of Centuries . Priests,Churches,temples, politicians and men hand in hand has worked together to deny woman possibility of Bliss. Liberation in sex has implications on its own. Slowly I see woman responding this conspiracy.

Why is this happening? Why all over the world do men suppress women in such a way? There is fear – because once a woman’s body becomes possessed, it is very difficult for a man to satisfy her; because a woman can have chain orgasms; a man cannot have. Any woman can have at least three orgasms in a chain, but man can have only one. And with a man’s orgasm the woman is aroused and is ready for further orgasms.Then it is difficult. Then how to manage it!. She needs another man immediately, and group sex is a taboo. All over the world we have created monogamous societies. We seem to feel that it is better to suppress the woman.So, really, 80% to 90% of women never know what orgasm is.They can give birth to children; that is another thing. They can satisfy the man; that is also another thing. But they themselves are never satisfied.

So if you see such bitterness in women all over the world – sadness, bitterness, frustration – it is natural.

Orgasm is a tremendous gift of nature. Man is deprived and because he is so quick in making love, the woman is deprived. The woman needs time to warm up. Her whole body is erotic, and unless her whole body is throbbing with joy, she will not be able to experience orgasm, for that there is no time. So for millions of years women have been completely denied their birthright. That’s why they have become so bitchy, so continuously nagging, and always ready to fight. There is no possibility of having a conversation with a woman. You are living with a woman for years, but there is not a single conversation that you can recall, when you were both sitting together, talking about great things of life. No, all that you will remember will be fighting, throwing things, being nasty.

The woman is not responsible for it. She is being deprived of her whole possibility of blissfulness. Then she becomes negative and this has given chance to the priests. All the churches and the temples are filled up with women, because they are the losers more than men are. Man’s orgasm is local. His whole body is not erotic. So his whole body does not suffer if there is no orgasmic experience, but the woman’s whole body suffers. it’s not accidental most of the priests, religious leaders are men. the biggest followers of all religions across the world are Women.

It is good business for religions. Unless people are psychologically suffering, they will not come to the churches. They will not listen to all kinds of idiotic theologies. Because they are suffering, they want some consolation. They want some hope at least after death. In life they know there is no hope; it is finished. This gives a chance to religions to show to men and women both that sex is absolutely futile. It has no meaning, no significance. You are unnecessarily losing your energy, wasting your energy. Their argument seems to be correct, because you have never experienced anything. So by preventing the orgasmic experience religions have made men and women slaves.

Orgasm relaxes every fibre of your mind, your heart, and your body. It is immensely important for meditation that the person has the experience of orgasm. Then you can make him understand what meditation is. It is an orgasmic experience with the whole of existence. Orgasm can be so beautiful, so beneficial, and so healthy, with a single human being; meditation is getting into oneness with the whole that surrounds you, from the smallest blade of grass to the biggest star, millions of light years away.

People talk about lesbianism, vibrators at length at indoors ( read Pubs, Mens Clubs!). Trust me for woman this is for more serious issue. She is finding in woman partners the platform for understanding her body and emotions. Lesbianism is not by accident! . Men have contributed equally to this phenomena. Dependency on man to achieve sexual satisfaction is gone!. Once this dependency is gone you see new revolution taking place. Women are already financially Independent. You really do not need a husband to make you pregnant!, Now If dependency of Orgasm is gone. Then you see equal footage of rights happening.

The future will have a totally different vision of sex. It will be more fun, more joy; more friendship, more a play than a serious affair as it has been.

On a Serious(!!) note, I recommend during marriage – every priest should ask a question ” Are you committed to give your wife Orgasm? Unless Groom says yes “I do every-time” – Marriage should not happen!

Love and lots of it dear ones