How do you get that lonely, how do you hurt that bad
To make you make the call, that havin’ no life at all
Is better than the life that you had
How do you feel so empty, you want to let it all go
How do you get that lonely… and nobody knows
Song by Larsen Blaine – Written about Young man who committed suicide
Unless you find Love, You will always Live on the edge of suicide. Tendency towards suicide is not just about the depression about life. Suicide mean you have lost hope and all hopes are dependent on others. Suicide means you have no opinion about yourself. Suicide means you have lost tremendous opportunity to live and love.
The only hope which matters is always about you. Your happiness is so dependent on external factors that you have no control over them. Your happiness is depend upon Money, Car, Loved ones, Jewellery and the endless shopping list. Your happiness is depending how others think about you and treat you. In-fact your happiness is nothing but other’s opinion about you. You drive yourself to suicide because you have nothing which you can call your own including hope.
Since your happiness so much dependent on external factors that Man is living close to suicide. It’s not happened at anytime before in our history. But global tendency of suicide has become much more intensified phenomena than before.
In unconscious love, you are just an emptiness — dark and dismal, hungry and thirsty. In unconscious love, you are a beggar. You are begging for love, because love is nourishment. And this is hilarious: You are begging for love, the other person, whom you are in love with is also begging for love — two beggars holding their begging bowls before each other, and both begging bowls are empty.
Conscious love makes you an emperor. You don’t beg; you simply give. And you give because now you see that the more you give the more you have. So whoever accepts your love, you are grateful to the person.
The whole earth can become full of love, an ocean of love, but only with conscious people.
With unconscious people, it is just a disgusting place, nauseating… everybody pretending to be loving, and nobody is loving. Everybody is trying to exploit the other, and the other is doing the same to him. And because both are empty, sooner or later they are going to start quarreling: that “You deceived me,” that “You cheated me,” that “You betrayed me,” that “You are not the woman you pretended to be,” that “You are not the man you were showing yourself to be.” But with beggars this is going to be the problem.
But everybody in this whole world of unconsciousness is a beggar, trying in every possible way to snatch some love, some attention, some sympathy — because love is a necessary nourishment. Without love, you cannot live; just as food is necessary for the body, love is necessary for the soul. And everybody is suffering without love, because without love your souls are dying.
But what we are doing is not right.
The right way is to bring consciousness to yourself.
And from consciousness there will be many revolutions in many dimensions. Love will be one of the most important dimensions, and you will find the golden key of how to get love from the whole existence.
The secret is: whatever you have, give it, share it.
Once the universe knows that you have become a sharer, then all the sources of the universe become available to you. They are inexhaustible.
Love and Love is my message.
From my upcoming book “Secrets for centuries”